Valentine’s Day Tips #5 and #6 for Love and Money

By Lynnette Khalfani-Cox, The Money Coach

This is the third of 5 sets of “Valentine’s Day Tips for Love and Money.” Read the first set here and the second here. Come back each week day this week for more tips to help you achieve financial harmony in your relationship.

5. In love and money, old stereotypes about men and women die hard. More than one-third of the women surveyed by PayPal said they share primary income responsibility with their partners, but only about a quarter of men said the same.  What gives?  Is he understating her contributions or overstating his own?


Don’t let stereotypical disconnects between women and men’s money-making abilities wreak havoc on your relationship.  Talk to each other about the contributions you each make to the shared bottom line: be clear and be honest. Make sure you’re on the same page in your financial planning and always resist the urge to be competitive.

6. Stop secret spending; it isn’t sexy. More than one in ten of PayPal’s respondents admit to hiding purchases from their partners.  Why all the secrets?  Even if you don’t always agree on each other’s spending habits, you can at least agree that any purchase over a certain amount ($200, for example) will be discussed in advance.  Such easy relationship guidelines can go a long way in creating financial harmony. One out of ten couples have ended a relationship due at least in part to financial issues.  Curb your secret spending habits before you join their ranks.


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